You don't always have to be in control. Stability alone is not balance. Balance is a verb - the act of keeping something steady so that it does not fall. There will be days where you will sway all the way to one side, and then the other. But you must keep moving to bring yourself back to the middle, back to equilibrium.
Adapt. Roll with the punches. Embrace the small changes, and align them with your contants.
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